In one year, my life has done a 180, & it has been a complete whirlwind. 🌀 It took me a long time to get the guts to make decisions that I knew people wouldn’t like. But my whole life up until now has been about settling, making choices & decisions in fear of upsetting a friend or knew they wouldn’t agree so I wouldn’t do it, even though the majority of people I surrounded myself with did whatever they wanted or needed in order to be “happy”, regardless of how anyone felt or who it would effect. I finally did that for myself, & in turn lost a good chunk of my “friends”. But the ones that stuck around, the ones that show me unconditional love and support, they matter.. they’re real, I trust them 100%. I would rather have a small handful of those types of folks instead of a slew of people that are pretending to give a shit. From now on, I’m doing things without fear, without caring if I look stupid or not. I’m not in high school anymore and it’s sad seeing people my age still feel the need to be petty or put others down because they are threatened, jealous, or don’t understand. Life is too short, trust me. Sorry this was so long, but I needed to get it out there. I can’t wait to get this next chapter of my life started and let everything that has happened in my life fuel my fire & help me achieve my goals. K GOODNIGHT. 💌
I needed this today. A lot has happened over the past year and SO much has changed. Sometimes, when a situation presents it’s self, I rack my brain and lose myself trying to bend and fix the situation into something I think it should be or something I want it to be. When all I need to do it just let it run it’s course and not stress so much. If someone doesn’t want to be in my life, I’m not going to freak out or stress and find out exactly why or think about it all the time. If I didn’t get the job I wanted, or something bad happens, I need to take it how it is and just live in the moment.
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Anonymous asked: I'm having a hard time letting go of my insecurities, jealousy and anxieties. Its really starting to take a toll in my relationship with my boyfriend as well as individually (feeling like im not beautiful enough, funny enough, thin enough) You get the picture. So I'm asking how do you cope with any jealousy and insecurities you have when it comes to you as an individual and being in a relationship?
Honestly, I battle with these issues as well, like all of the time. I am always thinking I could be more fit, be less of a basket case, and I am a very jealous person. It is very hard for me to let it all go, but it helps with being reassured by my boyfriend that he loves everything about me. I think I have a hard time with it because I am so in awe that someone could feel that way about me. Then I think, I love him the same way .. so it can’t be that crazy right? When I feel those issues boiling, I try and ignore it and just be confident. I work out, and if my body isn’t looking the way I wished, at least I tried and this is just what I was given, and i gotta work it. When girls look at my boyfriend or try to hit on him, instead of getting worked up over it and wanting to go off, I just sit back and smile and think how lucky I am that I have such a good lookin’ man by my side! I have seen relationships crumble by one of them being so insecure and jealous that the other just snaps and is over it. You have to look at it as bettering yourself, and doing it in a positive and confident way. Confidence really is key, and the more comfortable you get with being confident, those insecurities start to get a lot smaller and don’t matter as much.