Anonymous asked: Saw your post on jealousy. I get really insecure & get to comparing myself to others. I always feel like other girls always look better & I'll never measure up. I was in a terrible relationship where my ex totally stripped me of all of my confidence & made me feel like I'd never be good enough for anyone. My current boyfriend treats me so amazing & tells me how he's so in love with me, and thinks I'm beautiful. I don't want jealousy to affect our relationship. How do you personally cope with it?
I’m sorry to hear your ex made you feel like that, I will never understand how some people have the nerve to do that to someone else, especially when in a relationship. I’m glad you are with someone who recognizes your beauty and makes you feel good.
My boyfriend is the same way, always telling me how pretty I look or telling me how much he loves me and it never gets old and it does give me confidence. But there is always going to be that insecure side to me that looks at other girls and wishes I could look like them. I am constantly wanting to fix something about myself, I never seem to be satisfied with the way I look .. but then I have to realize, this is it, this is the way I look and this is what God gave me to work with. I have to get over it and snap out of it and try not to be jealous of other girls because confidence is sexy and there is no reason for anyone not to be confident. It is something I struggle with every day, but I just try and remember to be confident and own it.